Amor fati - Wikipedia. I am thinking today about the wisdom of Amor Fati, Latin for "Love your Fate". It is a corollary to the concept of surrender that I wrote about the other day. Our fate is the reality of being human. No matter how much we cry, moan, complain or worry, what will be will be. You have no control over it. Yes, you can fight, influence, and do what you can; but, your fate will happen. Why agonize over it? Love it. Embrace it. Deal with it as it comes. Find joy in every situation. It is difficult, I know, to love bad things that happen. But, if you do it, you will liberate your spirit. Don't worry about what other people say or do. Be free of all that. Just be free. Now, go enjoy the day.